The New Mexico bill to ban anti-gay discrimination has been killed in committee in the House of Representatives. After passing the Senate 23-18, it made it through the House Government and Urban Affairs Committee with a "do pass" recommendation, and then survived a threatened rejection of that committee's report on the House floor. It was tabled this morning during hearings in the House Judiciary Committee. The bill would have added the phrase "sexual orientation" to the already existing Human Rights Act. We got some outstanding support for this bill, and I'm confident that the bill will make it into law during the next regular legislative session (which, unfortunately, is not until 1995). The city councils of Las Cruces and Santa Fe both supported the bill, as did the NM ACLU, the Albuquerque chapter of NAACP, the New Mexico Psychological Association, the state's Evangelical Lutherans, and four of the state's five Jewish congregations, among many other endorsements. I am now more convinced than ever that, though it would be nice to have films like "Hate, Lies, and Videotape" and good public relations people, the most powerful tool we have had in this struggle has been the willingness of ordinary unstrait New Mexicans to come out of the closet and ask for the support of their strait friends. Time after time, it has been these personal encounters that have made the difference. Though the stereotypes have hurt us, they are powerless against personal connections with queers. The lesson is: come out, to everyone who knows and cares about you. Gabriel (in New Mexico)