Copied from the Annex's Gay_Issues conference. The Douglas County Sentinel August 14, 1993 By Robert Whatley HOW WILL DOUGLAS RESPOND TO GAY RIGHTS ISSUES? The man is not exactly prejudiced, bigoted, intolerant, fanatic, or dogmatic. His personal and family heritage will attest to that fact. His family has faced martyrdom to stamp out this very thing. Yet, when he went to give a speech one day, he was called these very things. Who was this man and what did he say to cause this whiplash reaction? The man's name was Martin Luther King III, commissioner in Fulton county and son of the civil rights legend. His statement to a group of college students: "There is something wrong with boys who like boys and girls who like girls." Immediately he was given some labels which placed him in the all-of-the -above classification. The extensions of this statement in various form have caused hurricane force reactions in city after city and state after state as the issue has wreaked havoc on the political landscape all across the county. Some vehemently oppose the concept of gay-lesbian rights and pass measures condemning the matter. Other political entities have issued approval by granting "partnership" rights and blessing the union. A new presidency was severely tested by the issue. Atlanta government is rocking over the matter. And just a few days ago, Cobb County was caught up in the vortex and is churning over the merits of the once-taboo but now fashionable current event. And soon, this storm may be coming around the mountain to Douglas County. Actually, it has been here before in the form of a smaller thunderstorm. Three times in fact. The issue arose over the hiring practices of Cracker Barrel restaurant. Then it hit some years ago when a Douglas County law enforcement officer applicant was questioned with one who had worked for a local institution stained by sexual corruption. The third time was costly. A teacher was initially hired and then her contract rescinded when it was learned she had taught at the same institution. She sued. She won. We paid dearly. What then will be our response if it hits with larger fury? Reason. Stonewall. Acceptance. Bigotry. Protest. Apathy. Mediation. Understanding. Hatred. Reconciliation. Moderation. Compromise. Rejection. All of the above. None of the above. Some of the above. "Other." Coming, ready or not. Are we prepared to extend county benefits to same-sex "spouses?" Are we prepared to debate giving cultural county grants to forms of expression that are not our moral cup of tea? Is our judicial system prepared to deal with custody issues involving the "marriage" of a custodial mother to another woman? Do our local corporate institutions have the resources under the new Family Leave Act to keep open positions and maintain insurance for 12 weeks while a same sex "partner" attends to the illness of his "spouse?" This is not the type of thing that can be dealt with when it happens and the issue is forced. Some forethought and planning is necessary to avoid the stormy tumult our municipal counterparts have weathered. We can learn from them how to handle and not handle this trigger-sensitive issue. We have a little breathing room for now. But we must not tarry. I have checked "Other" in my opinion of the way we will handle it. And, I must confess, I borrowed it from the Georgia flag: "Wisdom, Justice, Moderation." (Whatley is an attorney from Douglas County)