Date: Fri, 20 Mar 1998 22:08:08 -0500 From: woo@glaad.org (Wonbo Woo) Subject: GLAADAlert 03.20.98 GLAADALERT March 20, 1998 The GLAADAlert is the weekly activation tool of the Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation GLAADAlert Follow-Up: GLAAD Talks with Arkansas Democrat-Gazette Recently, GLAAD Executive Director Joan M. Garry had a productive conversation with the Arkansas Democrat-Gazette's publisher, Walter Hussman, following the paper's repeated publishing of the names of those arrested in police raids of men seeking sex with other men in public parks. The practice of publishing the names, which Hussman defended as "consistent" with the editorial policy, continued even after one man committed suicide because his name was published (see GLAADAlerts 2.6.98, 2.20.98, 2.27.98). In a March 16 letter following their phone conversation, GLAAD requested the newspaper reconsider the policy of printing the names of men arrested for misdemeanor sex crimes. "You began our conversation indicating that you felt as if your organization was being misrepresented as 'anti-gay,' and pointed to a history of support on your pages," said Garry in the letter. "You pointed to the [paper's] criticism of the arcane [Arkansas] sodomy laws....We at GLAAD applaud you for recognizing that laws and policies must be scrutinized continuously and altered when that scrutiny uncovers flaws. The Democrat Gazette would be well advised to consider an evaluation on its editorial policy in this light. I appreciated your thoughtful interpretation and defense of your policy but see all too clearly that this policy (like the sodomy laws) is seriously flawed and requires a change....When you answered the question 'how was the public interest served by printing the man's name?' with 'It was in keeping with our editorial policy,' I did not find that a compelling response. The gentleman's suicide note was infinitely more compelling to me. It is our obligation to make our community aware of injustice wherever it exists. But we also inform our community of media outlets striving for fairness. We would love to count the Arkansas Democrat-Gazette among the latter." Please politely encourage the Arkansas Democrat-Gazette to review their editorial policy. Contact: Walter E. Hussman, Jr., Publisher, Arkansas Democrat-Gazette, 121 E. Capital, Little Rock, AR 72201-5734, phone: 501.378.3485, fax: 501.372.3908, e-mail: news@ardemgaz.com 20/20 Clearly Sees the Issue of Discrimination Against Gay Teachers On March 13, ABC's 20/20 aired an excellent feature on the hardships faced by some high school educators when they are discovered to be lesbian or gay. Correspondent Deborah Roberts interviewed Randy Block, the widow of Byron City, Michigan music teacher Gerry Crane, about Crane's struggle after being outed. She also interviewed Richard Gregory, the leader of an anti-gay church, who spearheaded the attempt to push Crane out. He says, "If I were to ask you today, is it appropriate for a pedophile to teach in public school, you and others would say, 'Of course we can't abide that.' Fifteen years ago, the same would have been true for homosexuals." Roberts follows up, "But there is no proof that a gay man is a pedophile." He then backpedals: "Oh no, I'm not trying to make that linkage." She says, "We're talking about a gay teacher, we're not talking about someone who tries to prey on children." He replies, "We're talking about a sexual deviance." Then Roberts interviewed Gay, Lesbian and Straight Education Network Executive Director Kevin Jennings, who states, "Gay teachers are the canvas on which a community projects every nasty stereotype, myth and lie they've ever heard about gay and lesbian people." Roberts talks to Utah teacher Wendy Weaver and briefly discusses the attacks on Weaver by the local school board and parents. Finally, Roberts says Crane died at age 33 of a heart attack five months after resigning. "Indulgence in sinful lifestyles brings heartache," anti-gay Gregory says. But students say Crane taught respect, love, and self-worth. "They had one of the best teachers to teach music and they basically threw it all away," adds one student. Ending the story is a tearful Block, who in a choked voice says, "It took all of the joy out of his life. Teaching was what he considered his calling in life, his vocation by God. And a very small group of vocal people took that away from him." In closing, Barbara Walters asks, "When will we begin to looking at people as individuals?" The program touches upon the hardships faced by some teachers when they come out--or are discovered--as gay or lesbian. Roberts also asks tough questions of the radical religious leader who attempts to pull the wool of the old pedophile propaganda over the eyes of America, and allows him to reveal his own bigotry, intolerance and callousness for all the world to see. Please commend 20/20 for an outstanding news story and encourage them to do a follow up program about openly lesbian and gay teachers who are supported by and enrich their communities through their openness. Contact: Victor Neufeld, Executive Producer, 20/20, 147 Columbus Ave., 10th Floor, New York, NY 10023-5900, fax: 212.456.2969, e-mail: 2020@abcnews.com Knight-Ridder Highlights Black Lesbians and Gay Men Knight-Ridder newspapers are currently distributing an excellent article exploring identities and challenges for African-American lesbians and gay men. It begins, "It would not be inaccurate to describe Michael Hinson, Jr. as a gay, African-American male. But that does not mean he'd like it. 'Sexual minorities of color will generally define themselves by their race first,' says Hinson, executive director of Colours, a support and educational agency for black, Hispanic and Asian homosexuals." It discusses the struggle to find acceptance and understanding from both other African-Americans and white gay people. "After a history of being closeted by the violence-ridden homophobia of the majority and shunted into denial by what some black homosexuals describe as a 'don't ask, don't tell' ethos in their own community, African-American lesbians and gays, prodded, in part, by the AIDS epidemic, are now charting an increasingly public course," it says. "Despite similarities between the glimmerings of acceptance claimed by both African-Americans and white homosexuals, there are differences in the experiences of gays and lesbians of different races." It also discusses the particular relationship between historically black churches and lesbian and gay congregates, and the "strong conviction that one of the best ways to attack the spread of [HIV/AIDS] is by promoting and supporting stable, monogamous homosexual relationships." It points to an gay male couple of 18 years and the relationship of black lesbian filmmaker Cheryl Dunne and her partner, Alexandra Juasz, who are "expecting a child." [Editors note: Dunne actually just recently gave birth.] Too often, the media pits lesbians and gay men against communities of color, making the two seem mutually exclusive. This story not only looks into some of the issues faced by lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people of color, it also highlights several leaders of the lesbian and gay community who are also African-American talking about their experiences in their own words. Please let Knight-Ridder Newspapers know that the distribution of the excellent article is a welcome addition to mainstream media coverage of the full diversity of the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender community. Contact: Kathleen Carroll, News Editor, Knight-Ridder Newspapers, 529 14th St. NW, #700, Washington, DC 20045-1707, fax: 202.383.6075 Boston Globe Ombudsman Sees The Middle Road In his March 16 column, Boston Globe Ombudsman Jack Thomas discusses the strength of personal relationships in helping opposing sides better understand one another. After countering op-eds ran in the Globe which were written by National Gay and Lesbian Journalist Association member Chuck Colbert and John Haas, head of the conservative Catholic Pope John Center for the Study of Ethics in Health Care. Colbert approached Haas and Haas agreed, "Dialogue is good." Thomas notes the two "share roots in Western Pennsylvania. They are intelligent, articulate, charming. But one is a liberal gay activist, the other a conservative father of nine." Haas told Thomas, "I was a little uncomfortable[at Colbert's suggestion they meet for dinner]...because homosexual militants have a reputation for disrupting ordination services or throwing condoms at Catholics, and I [didn't] know where Chuck fit in." While each came away from the dinner "unchanged in his beliefs," Thomas says, both were "encouraged by the friendship." Haas realized, however, that while "the church bears no ill will to homosexuals...reactions has been that I was cruel. If the church is not articulating its message, it must be expressed differently." Thomas says, "Haas and Colbert talk of expanding their dialogue to a pubic forum with gay and nongay Catholics. 'Thirty years ago, Catholics thought Jews were Christ-killers on their way to hell,' says Colbert, 'and today were take pride in Catholic-Jewish relations. Gay Catholics are within the family, and we've been reluctant to talk about it.'" The two continue to meet, Thomas says, ending by writing, "'What has taken over,' says Colbert, 'is humanity." Please let the Boston Globe know that printing this rational, informed discussion is infinitely more valuable than printing alarmist, anti-gay op-eds, and encourage them to increase coverage of ways that communities of faith are reconciling with their gay congregants. Contact: Marjorie Pritchard, Op Ed Page Editor, and Jack Thomas, Ombudsman, Boston Globe, 135 Morrissey Blvd., Dorchester, MA 02125-3338, fax: 617.929.2098, e-mail: letters@globe.com L.A. Times Profiles Rev. Perry On March 16, the Los Angeles Times presented an excellent lengthy profile of Reverend Troy Perry, founder of the Universal Fellowship of Metropolitan Community Churches, which now has 52,000 members in 314 congregations around the world. The article begin with Perry watching the film The Apostle and feeling a connection to the defrocked Pentecostal minister abandoned by his church and wife "as a punishment for past sexual dalliances. Thirty years ago, Perry was also a Pentecostal minister banished from his church and deserted by his wife after a watershed sexual disclosure: He acknowledged that he was gay." It says, "Perry's churches are testimony to his audacity, his patience and--in an era when AIDS has killed or afflicted more than 10,000 of his congregates--his longevity." It adds, "Perry's movement holds to a defiant minority view: that the Bible does not condemn homosexuality or find it a sin. It's a stand that has won him critics and outright enemies." After discussing his calling to the ministry in the Church of God and his excommunication, the article notes that he struggled, unable to reconcile both his religion and his sexual orientation. But "suggestions by his mother and a neighborhood psychic to start his own religious movement finally led him to announce in [L.A.] he was holding services." It also interviews Perry's younger son, James Michael, a "33-year-old Midwestern construction worker," who says, "'Now that I know him, I'm proud of what he's done. I don't understand homosexuals, [but] I'm different now, thanks to my father.'" It also discusses Perry's commitment to activism and social change and says, "his churches have gained legitimacy among the religious community at large, accepted into a growing number of interfaith councils. Please commend the Los Angeles Times for an excellent profile of an underappreciated religious leader. Contact: Michael Parks, Managing Editor, Los Angeles Times, Times Mirror Square, Los Angeles, CA 90053, fax: 213.237.7679, e-mail: letters@latimes.com Pardon Me, Boy Scouts, Who Is that Chattanooga Cuckoo? The March 15 Chattanooga Free Press featured a diatribe about the Boy Scouts which tried to connect gay sexual orientation to pedophilia. "When a court orders the Boy Scouts to drop their guard against such people altogether and accept applicants regardless of sexual orientation, things are really fouled up," asserts Karl Spence. "The point most eagerly urged by 'gay rights' activists is that homosexuality and pederasty have nothing to do with each other." Spence then cites a highly reputable study from Denver Children's Hospital, which found that only two of 269 documented cases of sexual child abuse by adult attackers of the same gender involved a gay male perpetrator. His response? A quote from the anti-gay Kevin Tebedo of the radical religious group Colorado For Family Values, saying "'You don't have to be a rocket scientist to know that when a man has sex with a little boy it is a homosexual act.'" He then cites another reputable study from the U.S. Bureau of Justice which indicates that 25-40 percent of victims of child molestation are boys and the vast majority of perpetrators are male. From this, he indicates that "only three percent of the male population is homosexual, yet homosexual molestation accounts for about a third of child sex abuse." From this "evidence," Spence concludes that in the "[culture] war the Boy Scouts of America could use some help." Spence's wrong-headed thinking belies a confusion many people have about the difference between homosexuality and pedophilia. Molestation, like rape and other nonconsensual acts, is about power, as any reputable psychologist would explain. Consensual adult sex acts, on the other hand, regardless of the gender of the partners, is based in desire, emotional attachment and a host of other affirming qualities. While Spence may not be a "rocket scientist," he should surely understand that distinction. He also fails to see the difference between a "homosexual act," meaning any act between two people of the same gender, regardless of the motivations or sexual orientations or ages of the participants, and sexual orientation, which is just one facet of an individuals identity that exists whether or not the person engages in sexual activity. Thus, when studies repeatedly show that the vast majority of molesters of boys are heterosexual men, it means precisely that. Spence's own hostility and fear towards gay people blinds him to these simple truths. It is that same ignorance which leads the Boy Scouts of America to ban gay male Scouts and leaders solely based on their sexual orientation. Let the Chattanooga Free Press know that as a serious newspaper it should demand higher factual standards and more conclusive evidence before allowing a writer to foment unwarranted hostility towards gay people. Contact: Lee Anderson, Editor, Chattanooga Free Press, 400 East 11th St., Chattanooga, TN 37403-4200, fax: 423.757.6383, e-mail: ksloan@chatfreepress.mindspring.com (put "Letter to the Editor" in subject line of all e-mails) Kentucky Editorials Oppose Anti-Gay-Marriage Law Editorials in the March 13 edition of the Louisville Courier Journal and the March 16 Lexington Herald Leader in Kentucky both lambasted the state legislature for passing a bill banning same-sex marriage. Of the bill, and another which required physicians to give women who want abortions information but send them home for 24 hours before conducting the procedure, the Courier Journal says, "On the floor of the General Assembly, they are revealed for what they really are: mean-spirited attempts to take away personal liberty." It adds, "There was only one reason to address same-sex marriage now: fear....You don't have to favor homosexual rights to be offended by the legislation. It was cruel; it was passed without concern for folks with difficult lives. Most of us know someone wonderful who will be hurt by these bills." It then calls upon fair-minded people to stand up to oppose the bills, since "the only mobs roaming the halls and holding rallies are wearing pro-life buttons and anti-homosexual stickers. Lawmakers are always going to response to what they see as the will of the people. It's time that what they see is the good will of the people." In the Lexington Herald Leader, the editorial states: "Fear and confusion. These are the complication emotions undergirding [the] vote against recognizing the rights of any homosexual who may one day be allowed to marry in another state. Understanding these emotions is crucial for the Senate, which must now resist the temptation to aggravate differences among Kentuckians. The House got swept away with Paul Revere-like warnings: 'The gays are coming. The gays are coming.' But gay people are already our friends, neighbors and co-workers. And some have been fortunate enough to find another to share their lives. At a time when half of heterosexual marriages end in divorce, gay marriage seems to be an illogical scapegoat for moral decay and lost moorings in fast-changing times." Please thank both the Louisville Courier Journal and the Lexington Herald Leader for their clear-headed calls for common sense. Contact: … David Hawpe, Editor, Editorial/Opinion Page, The Courier-Journal, 525 W. Broadway, Louisville, KY 40202-2137, fax: 502.582.4360, e-mail: cjletters@louisvil.gannett.com … Vanessa Gallman, Editorial/Op Ed Page Editor, Lexington Herald-Leader, 100 Midland Ave., Lexington, KY 40508-1999, fax: 606.255.7236, e-mail: hledit@lex.infi.net Errata: The contact information for the Myrtle Beach Sun News (GLAADAlert 3.13.98) accidentally indicated it was in Florida, despite being identified correctly as in South Carolina throughout the body of the item. In addition, contact information for KXAN-TV in Austin was inadvertently run along with news outlets which ran sensationalistic stories about public sex between men. According to KXAN-TV, they did not run any such report. While GLAAD did not assert that they did, their contact information was accidentally listed. GLAAD regrets any confusion this may have caused. The GLAADAlert is the weekly activation tool of the Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation. GLAAD promotes fair, accurate and inclusive representation in the media as a means of challenging homophobia and all forms of discrimination based on sexual orientation or identity. Contact GLAAD by e-mail at glaad@glaad.org or by phone at 213.658.6775 (Los Angeles), 212.807.1700 (New York), 415.861.2244 (San Francisco), 202.986.1360 (Washington, DC), 404.607.1204 (Atlanta) and 816.756.5991 (Kansas City) Feel free to pass GLAADAlert on to friends, family and associates! 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