From: GLAADSFBA@aol.com Date: Tue, 13 Jun 1995 04:08:18 -0400 Subject: GLAAD MEDIA WATCH, June 9 M e d i a W a t c h for June 9, 1995 by A l K i e l w a s s e r Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation, San Francisco Bay Area Chapter CYBER PHOBIA Rumors that a 15-year-old Washington boy had been "lured" to San Francisco by an "older" gay man -- using the America Online (AOL) computer service -- have excited a rush of paranoid and homophobic news reports. The "San Francisco Examiner" ran a piece on "prowling through the Internet." A Bay Area (KGO-TV) morning news program broadcast the story, using -- as background footage -- images of someone searching AOL's "Gay & Lesbian Community Forum" (suggesting that the bulletin board is really a pedophile playground). The June 19 issue of "Newsweek" ran an especially melodramatic report, "Don't 'Chat' To Strangers." The article, written by Marc Peyser, opened on this note: "Daniel Montgomery was so addicted to America Online's 'chat rooms' -- a nationwide system of cyberspace pen pals -- that his parents limited him to four online hours a week. But the Montgomerys didn't know how dangerous the obsession was until the 15-year-old vanished from home in Mapple Valley, Wash., on May 18." The "Newsweek" article went on to discuss how baffled and vexed parents are in the face of such "computer-assisted disappearances." "A child may know not to talk to strangers at the mall," the article explains, "but in the faceless, anonymous world of online, talking to strangers is the whole idea. And sometimes those strangers can be predators." As it turned out, the "older" gay man in the Daniel Montgomery case was actually another teenage boy. The mainstream media have been less anxious to tell that part of the story. Missing from these and many other accounts has been any serious investigation into Daniel Montgomery's home life. The press was anxious to question how the boy could be LURED from his home by a pedophile. But no one asked how he could have been DRIVEN from his home by homophobic parents. That, after all, is the more common -- and yet less reported upon -- situation in the lives of lesbian, gay and bisexual youth. In fact, Daniel's parents have been described as "devoutly Christian." A report in the " San Jose Mercury News" reveals a bit more. In his June 6 article, David Plotnikoff reports that "the dust from Daniel Montgomery's on-line odyssey -- which began with a meeting in one of America Online's real-time gay chat areas -- has yet to settle." Plotnikoff indicates that Daniel's father -- according to earlier reports -- believes there are "organized gay efforts on-line to recruit boys." Another story in the "Mercury," also on June 6, reports a conversation with Daniel's mother. Talking with her by phone, reporter Michael Dorgan quotes Ruth Montgomery as she insists that "there are no indications" that her son might be gay. "Just then," Dorgan writes," the phone connection was briefly interrupted, after which Ruth Montgomery could be heard to say sternly, 'Don't do this to Mommy! You don't do this to your Mommy!' After several similar admonishments from Ruth Montgomery, an angry young male voice shouted, 'You'll just make it worse!'" Unfortunately, this current spate of cyber phobia will only feed the censorious frenzy surrounding the Internet. For example, the latest (May 1995) issue of "Family Voice" -- magazine of the Right Wing "Concerned Women for America" -- warns readers: "The Internet has become the latest avenue for pornography to slip into the home. But now the state and federal governments are ready to crack down on this latest assault on the family." And, indeed, Senator James Exon (D-NE) has already introduced the first of an inevitable series of legislative efforts to ban "obscenity" on the Internet. It's impossible to avoid the uneasy feeling of deja vu. Censors have always been suspicious of the pleasures of children. In his 1954 book "Seduction of the Innocent," psychiatrist Frederic Wertham panicked the nation -- and the U.S. Congress -- with his lurid tales of how popular comic books could lead children into homosexuality and murder. Such irrational fears and fantasies have been raised in regard to every medium popular with the young, from movies to music. Now, it's the modem. For lesbian, gay and bisexual youth, this issue is nothing less than a matter of life and death. Often isolated and despised by both family and society, these youth may find a lifeline in the on-line world of the Internet. ** Encourage the press to tell the REAL story of homophobia in the lives of young gay and lesbian teens. Ask your local papers to editorialize against efforts to censor Internet communication. Feedback can also be directed to Phil Bronstein, Editor, "San Francisco Examiner," 110 5th Street, San Francisco, CA 94103, tel. 415-777-2424, e-mail sfexaminer@aol.com; Jim Topping, President, KGO-TV, 900 Front Street, San Francisco, CA 94111, tel. 415-954-7777, fax 415-956-6402; Maynard Parker, Editor, "Newsweek," 251 West 57th Street, New York, NY 10019, fax 212-445-4120, e-mail NEW150A@prodigy.com or letters@newsweek.com; Jerome Ceppos, Managing Editor, "San Jose Mercury News," 750 Ridder Park Drive, San Jose, CA 95190, tel. 408-920-5000, fax 408-288-8060, e-mail sjmercury@aol.com or JCEPPOS@aol.com; For a free 3-month subscription to "Family Voice," call 800-323-2200, or write to Concerned Women for America, 370 L'Enfant Promenade, S.W., Suite 800, Washington, DC 20024. ABBY APOLOGIZES! In her May 5 column, "Dear Abby" (Abigail Van Buren) gave some rotten advice to a man who was upset about "ugly" rumors that he might be gay. Abby agreed that such talk (and, by implication, being gay) was indeed "ugly." She condemned the "ugly accusations" without condemning -- or even mentioning -- homophobia. In response, the popular advice columnist received lots of advice herself -- from lesbian and gay letter writers. "It is PREJUDICE that is ugly -- not being gay," one reader wrote, "I believe you owe all of us an apology." To her credit, Van Buren printed a number of similar letters in her June 2 column, which was completely devoted to the subject. And she DID apologize. Van Buren wrote: "Anyone who has read my column for any length of time knows that not only am I not homophobic but for decades I have spoken out to promote understanding and acceptance of gays and lesbians. You have my profound apology. I completely agree with your statement that what is ugly is prejudice -- not one's sexual orientation." Send compliments to Abigail Van Buren, "Dear Abby," P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069. A CREDIBLE FILM This Summer, theater screens will light up with a new film from writer/director (and ACT UP activist) Maria Maggenti. "The Incredibly True Adventures of Two Girls In Love" tells the comic tale of first love between two young women during their Senior year of high school. Laurel Hollmon plays "Randy Dean" -- a working class "tomboy" who lives with her lesbian aunt and her aunt's lover. She falls in love with "Evie Roy" -- "one of the most popular girls in school" -- who is played by Nicole Parker. Major motion pictures seldom (if ever) celebrate lesbian, gay or bisexual teen relationships. Fine Line Pictures deserves support for the decision to distribute this breakthrough film. * Contact Sarah Eaton, Fine Line Pictures, 888 7th Avenue, New York, NY 10106, fax 212-956-1942. STYLE GUIDANCE Ron Rapoport writes a sports column for the Los Angeles "Daily News," and he also appears each Saturday on National Public Radio's "Weekend Edition." In his June 2 "Daily News" column ("Sports Zone"), Rapoport offers his perspective on the recent death of Glenn Burke, a major league baseball player who was gay and had AIDS. Rapoport's column is fairly intelligent, and he makes several important points. He notes the homophobia that rages through professional sports, and which keeps most lesbian and gay athletes locked firmly in the closet. "The obituaries seem to imply that when Burke died Tuesday night he was the first major-league baseball player to succumb to AIDS," Rapoport writes, "but this is not the case." Rather, he points out, "Burke was the first player to admit to being gay and contracting the disease and therein lies a crucial difference." Despite what seem to be his good intentions, however, Rapoport's column is marred by two stylistic problems that plague lots of news print. First, Glenn Burke did not -- as Rapoport writes -- "admit to being gay." Burke came out. He said he was gay. And that's an important difference. As long as reporters improperly use phrases like "admit to being gay" or "an admitted lesbian," homosexuality is treated less as a sexual orientation and more like a criminal offense. Rapoport also writes: "Burke did not get AIDS from having sex with women or from a blood transfusion or even from an infected needle while taking drugs. He got it in what is by far the most common way. He got it from gay sex." Certainly, gay men are a community besieged by the HIV plague. But no one ever got HIV or AIDS from "gay sex." People contract the virus through unprotected or unsafe sex with an HIV-positive individual. This all-too-common media misstep only reinforces the homophobic notion that "gay sex" is inherently dirty, diseased or even deadly. ** Rapoport and other well-intentioned journalists want to do better; they just need some advice on how to do it. Send feedback to Ron Rapoport, "The Daily News," P.O. Box 4200, Woodland Hills, CA 91365, tel. 818-713-3000, fax 818-713-3723. MEDIA BRIEFS * Misinformation Bulletin . . . The "Bulletin of the National Association of Research and Therapy of Homosexuality" (NARTH) is a source of much homophobic misinformation. For a free copy (along with other "information" on "healing homosexuality"), call 818-789-4440. NARTH's annual conference is scheduled for July 29, in San Francisco. * Around The World . . . "BLK" has recently established a World Wide Web site, focusing on the black lesbian and gay community (http://www.blk.com/blk/). "Pinkboard," Australia's "oldest gay computer bulletin board system," has also joined the World Wide Web (www.pinkboard.com.au); e-mail larrys@pinkboard.com.au. "OUT" -- "America's best-selling gay and lesbian magazine" -- just launched its new World Wide Web service, in conjunction with Apple Computer and over 20 gay/lesbian newspapers (http://www.out.com). The Institute for First Amendment Studies -- publishers of "Freedom Writer" newsletter ("A Hard Look At The Hard Right") -- also offers a World Wide Web home page (http://www.crocker.com/~ifas/). * Media Milestone . . . According to producers, the 13 episodes of "Network Q: Out Across America" have made "broadcast history" as "the first weekly gay television series." The series premiered June 8th, on Denver PBS station KBDI. The series will be distributed via satellite (and at no cost) to PBS stations nationwide. Urge your local PBS outlet to pick up this and other lesbian/gay/bisexual programming! For more information about "Out Across America," contact Network Q, 4001 S. Decatur #367, Las Vegas, NV 89103, tel. 800-368-0638, e-mail networkQ@aol.com. * Hate On-Line . . . Subscribers to the America OnLine (AOL) computer service are given the option of completing public "user profiles," which list such details as name, birthdate, occupation and hobbies. Demonstrating that hate is alive and well (and on-line), a recent sampling of AOL profiles includes the following: (1) Screen Name: Ebelrectom, Member Name: Chuck, Birthdate: 2/1/64, Sex: Male, Hobbies: Nasty women, big tits, fag bashing. (2) Screen Name: Slade13, Member Name: Slade Stewart, Birthdate: 8/80, Hobbies: Fag bashing. (3) Screen Name: Dav666, Birthdate: 3/7/70, Sex: Male, Occupation: U.S. Marine Corp, Hobbies: Gay bashing, fag hunting. (4) Screen Name: Tdogg34, Member Name: Travis Lawler, Birthdate: 12/7/78, Sex: Male, Hobbies: Snowboarding, guitar playing, fag bashing. (5) Screen Name: Uklet, Sex: Male, Hobbies: Cross burning, gay bashing, nigger lynching. * By The Book . . . The American Library Association's Gay, Lesbian and Bisexual Book Awards Committee has announced the winners of the 1995 Gay/Lesbian/Bisexual Book awards. Award-winning books include Dorothy Allison's "Skin: Talking About Sex, Class & Literature" (Firebrand Books) and Phillip Sherman's and Samuel Bernstein's "Uncommon Heroes: A Celebration of Heroes and Role Models for Gay and Lesbian Americans" (Fletcher Press). Nominations are already being sought for the 1996 awards, and the deadline is November 30, 1995. For details, contact John DeSantis, Chair, Gay, Lesbian & Bisexual Book Award Committee, Dartmouth College Library, HB 6025, Hanover, NH 03755-3525, tel. 603-646-3605, fax 603-646-3702, e-mail John.C.DeSantis@dartmouth.edu. * Straight From The Homophobe's Mouth . . . "Shut Up Fag!" is a new collection of California Congressperson Bob Dornan's "outrageous statements on gays and many other issues." The collection is produced by Mainstreet Media, edited by Nathan Callahan and William Payton, and distributed by the Institute for First Amendment Studies (IFAS). For details, contact IFAS, P.O. Box 589, Great Barrington, MA 01230, tel. 413-528-3800, e-mail IFAS@crocker.com. * The ROT in JROTC . . . The "Junior Reserve Office Training Corp" -- JROTC -- is a Pentagon-operated military program that brings racist and homophobic textbooks into public school classrooms. Across the country, hundreds of new JROTC programs are scheduled to open next Fall. A national telephone hotline -- 1-800-NO-JROTC -- provides information to activists working to stop JROTC indoctrination. * Sound Bite . . . "I visualize being with another man" (San Antonio Spurs forward Dennis Rodman -- who also says he goes to gay bars -- in a recent "Sports Illustrated" cover story). # # # # # # # # # # # # # # # WE MUST CONFRONT HOMOPHOBIA IN ORDER TO CURE IT! TO NOTIFY GLAAD-SFBA OF ANY DEFAMATORY OR AFFIRMATIVE MEDIA COVERAGE CALL OUR 24-HOUR MEDIA WATCH HOTLINE AT 415-861-4588, OR WRITE TO "MEDIA WATCH," GAY & LESBIAN ALLIANCE AGAINST DEFAMATION-SAN FRANCISCO BAY AREA, 1360 MISSION STREET, SUITE 200, SAN FRANCISCO, CA 94103; tel. 415-861-2244, fax 415-861-4893, e-mail GLAADSFBA@AOL.COM. FOUNDED IN 1988, THE SAN FRANCISCO BAY AREA CHAPTER OF GLAAD IS A MEMBERSHIP-BASED COMMUNITY ORGANIZATION DEDICATED TO CULTURAL ADVOCACY AND MEDIA ACTIVISM. 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